Questions are better than answers. I listened to a communications expert Vince Fabra (@VinceFabra on Twitter) speak. He said that those who let questions drive conversation exhibit the virtue of curiosity. Being curious about others communicates value and regard for those being questioned. It tells them that what they know is important. It tells them that their opinion matters. It tells them there is a story worth telling. He says the best questions are open

A recent sermon by Andy Stanley dealt with “judging” others. The basic advice was that we shouldn’t judge unless we undergo regular, critical self-evaluation focused on removing our own liabilities. That critical self-assessment puts us in a better spot to offer help to others who may need it. Stanley says there are three “judgmental” issues. One are those who judge others and readily dismiss them. He calls people who readily dismiss others with quick judgment

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention… -Rachel Naomi Remen I hope this quote causes you to pause and to reflect upon your “listening” activity. We all recognize its importance. We have a deep appreciation for those who we can count on to listen. We especially appreciate those who listen and “get” us. We especially

I’m spending time in France where I don’t, decidedly, know the language. Thus, rather than talk, I watch. In markets and streets, you pass by hundreds of people. You can tell most of them don’t assume they are being watched. But, they are. At the very least I’m watching them. Maybe others are as well. Some appear unhappy. Their faces creased with frowns. Their figures stooped with burdens. Others carry themselves with confidence, nodding as